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APOLOGIZE, APOLOGIZE! takes us into the perversely charmed world of the Flanagans and their son, Collie (who has the questionable good fortune to be named after a breed of dog). Coming of age on Martha’s Vineyard, he struggles to find his place within his wildly wealthy, hyper-articulate, resolutely crazy Irish-Catholic family: a philandering father, incorrigible brother, pigeon-racing uncle, radical activist mother, and domineering media mogul grandfather (accused of being a murderer by Collie’s mother).    


The book is absolutely hilarious. But for me it was too funny. It was one pointless funny scene after one another with no direction to go to…The adults in this story are so self – indulgent that “Collie” the main character never had a chance to develop. The characters are very stereotypical in their behaviors and actions. I saw wonderful reviews of this book almost everywhere…and I was looking forward to it , but it really dissapointed me…it’s a good thing that instead of reading alone I am reading this for my book club, atleast I will get to discuss my dislikes (is that an appopriate word here !) with my buddies who like it or vice-versa…    


Elizabeth Kelly is a magazine editor and award-winning journalist with several Canadian National Magazine Awards and nominations to her credit. Apologize, Apologize! is her first novel. It will be published as part of Knopf Canada’s “New Face of Fiction” program in April, 2009. She has a profoundly (some might say tragically) Catholic education, attending a Catholic elementary school, a convent high school, and then St. Michael’s College at the University of Toronto, where she majored in English, multiple fiancés, and truancy. Years of poverty, strong opinions, and poor judgment ensued. Today, a largely unrecognized authority on Guns N’ Roses, she lives in a century-old house in a little eastern Ontario village where she hides from visitors and nightly prays that she won’t one day be found under an avalanche of old newspapers, partially consumed by dogs—one Labrador Retriever named Chip in particular.    


1) Throughout this account of Collie Flanagan’s life (so far), he appears to be the only conventional—or perhaps even sane—member of his family. However, the novel is told from his perspective. Do you feel like you can trust what he’s saying?
2) What do you think of Collie’s mother? Does she seem to have lived a life of passion, or is she defined only by her rebellion against her aristocratic roots?
3) Should Collie have gone in after Bingo and the others, knowing as he did that there was no hope? 4) In one interview, Elizabeth Kelly referred to Bingo as “representative of full-blown adolescence, but in all its glory,” and as something of a heroic character as well. What do you make of him?  5) Elizabeth Kelly has clearly had a lot of fun creating the hilarious and often manic characters at the heart of this novel. How did you react to the various Flanagan family blowouts? Did you more often cringe or laugh out loud?   6) Talk about the role of money in this novel: who has it and who doesn’t; how it can be a motivator, or stunt one’s     

ambitions; how it insulates the Flanagans, yet forces them into the limelight; and so on.


7) “Dignity is the last refuge of scoundrels,” Collie’s father was known to say, and he certainly was one to put himself into undignified positions, despite his charm and sharp clothes. What do you make of him as a man, and as a father?


8) Who is your favorite character in this novel, and why? 








9) Collie and Bingo have a relationship that’s not always straightforward, yet at its heart is a strong sibling love. What does each expect, and receive (or not), from the other?
10) What was Collie hoping to achieve in El Salvador? Did he change as a result of his experiences there?
11) What are Collie Flanagan’s personal strengths? Were there small events that stood out for you as monumental in terms of proving his character? 12) More than any other member of the Flanagans, Collie has a close—if complex—relationship with his grandfather, Peregrine Lowell. Why is that so? How has their relationship developed by the end of the novel?  13) The Flanagans inhabit a world of elite privilege, yet are so self-absorbed you can’t help but wonder whether they’d even notice if the rest of humanity ceased to exist. Does Collie rise above all that, or is he just like the rest of them?   14) Collie’s father has a knack for showing up wildly drunk for even the most staid of events, including the funerals held for his wife and son. Talk about how his disappearances and arrivals function in the novel.    

15) Whenever anyone talks to Collie about the events of the day Bingo and his mother died, they always get the details wrong. What is Kelly saying about living up to the expectations of others in this novel? Should Collie have stood up for himself more often?    

16) The Flanagans are a wild and wildly humorous bunch, and even their seemingly unwarranted jabs at Collie are terrific. Discuss the role of cutting humor and over-the-top judgment in the novel.    

17) At the end of the novel, Collie appears to have come to terms with his family, or at least seems to have achieved some measure of peace. What does the future hold for Collie Flanagan?    


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